Have you ever admired a friend, relative, co-worker or another woman for her talents, accomplishments, style etc.  Did you let her know how much she inspired you? Most of the time, unfortunately we usually don’t – – but this is a big mistake! We rise by lifting others! Everyone likes to hear they are appreciated or admired. There is no need to feel envious of another’s persons life, talents, accomplishments etc.  Everyone has something to

Ever since I was little words like beautiful, hot, cute, pretty and gorgeous have made me uncomfortable. Getting a compliment is always nice but beauty is so subjective that in my opinion, these words are empty. How you see yourself is not at all how others see you – – that is why loving who you are on the inside is essential. So instead of basing your confidence and self worth on the words of

Moving across the country and experiencing so much newness has definitely changed me, for the better! I’ve mentioned in previous posts that I am a naturally empathetic, sensitive person and for years (much longer than I’m proud to admit) I strongly disliked being this way. When I was a young girl I thought something was wrong with me – – I would lay in bed and rehearse in my head (day after day) how I was

It’s so important to be a strong and independent woman. Independence gives us freedom to reach our goals and to live the life we want. It’s something that comes from deep inside but your surroundings, circle of friends and many other things also contribute to you becoming a strong and independent woman. Here are my tips: Use your voice. Be confident, know your opinions are of value. Make your own path. Don’t be afraid to take the

From a very early age we and the people we are surrounded by begin the comparisons – it starts as . . . “you look exactly like your antie”, “you and your sister look nothing alike”, “your hair would look so good blonder”, “you’re so curvy – no one else in our family is – where’d that come from?!” and these comments never stop. Why do we do this? I’m sure a lot of you

“Don’t worry about it, no problem, yes of corse I will, I’ll do it – not a big deal” – – these are some of the most common phrases that I’ve used my whole my life. I’ve always wanted to make people happy and to never disappoint anyone but after awhile I realized keeping everyone else happy wasn’t making me happy. It took me years to actually be able to tell people if I felt

“I would like to be known as an intelligent woman, a courageous woman, a loving woman, a woman who teaches by being” – Maya Angelou I love this quote, the first time I read it was in my dorm room nine years ago and this is where the idea for BeBelle began. As a woman whose coming to the end of her 20’s, I’m proud of my efforts to always support, encourage and inspire other

“You can search throughout the entire universe for someone who is more deserving of your love and affection than you are yourself and that person is not to be found anywhere. You yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe deserve love and affection” – Buddha Imagine you are in a relationship, with yourself – how do you treat yourself? Are you nice to your body and mind? I’ve noticed throughout life that so many

We all want to be respected, valued and admired but if you’re not sure how to make it happen. The key is to stop living inside your head and focusing on yourself (no one thinks about you as much as you think!). When you think about the people you respect deeply, what do they do differently than the average person? I’ve learned many tips on earning respect through various jobs, relationships and experiences – here are

I remember always feeling like I didn’t fit in – I was constantly told “you’re too quiet, too shy, too sensitive, why don’t you smile more” and on and on and on. I was always “too” something for someone. I felt like I couldn’t be myself because no one understood me and accepted me, so at a young age I started taking risks. I always liked to meet new people, learn new things and put myself